Should I Visit a Prostitute or Hooker?


Many men considering visiting a prostitute or hooker at some point in their life and there are certainly many reasons to do so. It leads to the question of whether a man should visit a prostitute. However, what you should ask yourself is whether you want to and if there are benefits for you specifically. Here are reasons why you should and shouldn't visit a prostitute.

You Can Certainly Gain Experience

Paying for sex will certainly give you the experience. This isn't just about sexual experience, but life experience as a whole. You'll still need to has respect for the woman (or man if you're looking into male prostitution) who you're paying. They'll sense if you don't have that respect and won't give you it in return.

Plenty of prostitutes have seen men at all stages of sexual experience. They'll understand your nerves (even non-virgins are nervous the first time) and will help to calm those nerves. They can teach you what is good if you need it and help you explore your own sexual needs. It can be easier with someone you don't know, as you'll have more confidence knowing you don't have to see them again if you don't want.

You Don't Just Have to Pay for Sex

While prostitution has always been a way for a man to pay for sex, that isn't the only option. Prostitutes can also be known as escorts. You can pay them to go on dates, grab dinner, go to events where you need a plus one, and more. Many are completely open to this and it gives you chance to gain social experience as well as sexual.

Of course, you can eventually lead to sexual experience afterwards. The initial "date" can be a way to get comfortable with the escort of choice.

You'll Need to Separate Prostitutes from Real Girlfriends

If you find it hard not to make emotional attachments to a person, you may not find visiting a prostitute is for you. The woman isn't there to start a relationship with her client. It's business to her. While she will be respectful and privy to your desires, she isn't there to find a man to settle down with. This isn't Pretty Woman.

When it comes to real girlfriends, there are some major differences. Of course, you can pay for the "girlfriend experience" with a prostitute, but you'll get away with an open relationship. When it comes to real girlfriends, there's the expectation of commitment and exclusivity.

You'll also need to be comfortable with prostitution. If you think it's disgusting or degrading, this isn't going to be an option for you. Online dating to find a hookup or someone who genuinely wants to date could be the best option.

Prostitution is good to get that initial experience, especially if you're worried about the lack of it in the dating pool. However, it's not the be-all-and-end-all. Know how you feel about prostitution and remember that these are real humans behind the money and business.